Today Is the Day I Quit

It’s Quit Something Thursday. Have you heard about this?

It was inspired a few years ago by NY Times best-selling author Bob Goff, who says he makes a point of quitting something every Thursday:

He looks at his life and chooses something to let go of, something to take off his overcrowded to do list. He gives himself permission to quit – for the sake of his physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual health.

Kind of like permission not to have to clean your plate.

It feels wrong somehow, but it’s actually better for you than forcing yourself to finish what you don’t want or need or have room for. Because that never helped anyone.

I’ve been thinking about it, and I’ve come to a decision about what to quit on my first Quit Something Thursday:

Today, I quit waiting for my life to get back to normal or to “get caught up” to do the things that are most important to me.

I am finally ready – I think – to accept that it is never going to happen. There is never going to be a good time to “start fresh” or get into a new routine.

My life is always going to be messy and complicated. Sometimes in a good way – a very good way. Sometimes in a hard way – a very hard way. Usually a lot of both, or in a place somewhere in between.

In The Weight of Glory, C.S. Lewis said:

CS Lewis Weight of Glory Peace or War

All we have is this day, today…

Over the years I’ve really tried to learn to be “led by the Spirit” – I’ve worked hard to be flexible with my plans, hold them lightly, keep my eyes open for divine appointments. I know something of how to live in the moment, in terms of celebrating moments and experiencing them.

I work hard at a

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